It is common for people to have self doubts about their relationship, and worried that their relationship were going to end soon, or not going to last forever.
And do you really want to end the relationship? Or do you want to revive it instead?
Some people try to go on a long holiday, in order to bring back the lost sparks, but discover that it is to no avail. Little did they realize that there is no way to reignite the lost love.
1) Pull the trigger
Well, people always do not want to break off, as they are afraid to hurt the other party. But do you realize that by dragging it longer, it is in fact more painful for the other partner?
Why not ask her how she feels? I believe that she is feeling the same way, as the female instinct is very sharp. Consider breaking up as an option, not as a way to hurt her. Letting her free from the relationship may be a better choice.
To a woman, no love is more than physical hurt! She will not be able to take it.
2) Woman decides to break up
Sometimes, the woman will initiate first. This is because she knew that the end result will be the same, and that is, the relationship will not work out.
But of course, this seldom happens to a woman, as to a woman, breaking up is usually the last option. You must have been a bad boyfriend, or has hurt her enough for her to say it out. So guys, take note.
The guy will probably fell devastated, as he can never understand why a woman who loves you so much, will leave him instead. He must be so puzzled as to why the woman does not want to try anymore!
3) Self Destruction
After a break up, some guys may turn into a break down, or what I call a self destruction. Although he does not really love the woman anymore, he still carry feelings for her, hoping that she will return to his side But never did he know that this may happen only if the woman regret the choice after some time.
Can you imagine a guy crying and begging on his knees for the woman to come back to him? You may laugh, but it happens in real life. This is really an irony, as in life, you cannot have what you want!
And if you start acting needy and desperate, you are likely to lose the respect of her, and there foes your chance! So my advice is, when the relationship does not seem to work well, breaking up can be the best policy. Do not get into the comfortable stage whereby she will always be there for you.