What Do Women Want in a Man?

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So what do women want in a man. Women are emotional creatures and first you need to understand the we are not visually stimulated. Not that a handsome face won't catch our eye, but he could open his mouth and blow it all in the first sentence. A lot of men lack the confidence it takes to really get attention. Confidence is the number one thing women want in a man. There is nothing sexier than a confident man.

Now I am a woman and I recently signed up to an on line dating site. Now first you have to decide do you want a great woman or a desperate woman and I think you know the answer to that. I consider myself far from desperate, so let me first tell you what a confident, smart woman does on an on line dating site and in all areas for that matter. First she looks at your picture, then she reads your profile. Great women rarely contact you first.

Now day one, tons of hits. I weed through them, if there is no profile, I delete. If the profile talks about how you are looking for your soul mate, I delete, not that I am not looking for mine as well. It just sounds wimpy. Now I read the messages. How are you today? Delete. How is your day? Delete. What are you looking for in a man? Delete. What do you do for fun? Delete. Good morning beautiful or sexy. Delete. Can I have your phone number? Delete. The days is over and one guy survived the cut, the one guy that was funny, confident and the one guy that obviously took the time to get past the picture and read my profile. The one guy that made me smile instead of roll my eyes. Now what was it about that one guy that made me not delete? It wasn't his looks, he was average. It was his confidence and humor and the fact that he did not act desperate that came through in his messages.

Women don't like wimpy, mushy or over accommodating. Men often try to sell themselves by telling what they have, what they can offer, like honesty, love, devotion. Sure we want that, but that is not what is going to attract us to you so that we can discover your wonderful qualities without you having to tell us about them. What I mentioned above holds true in the real dating world as well as the on line dating world. Its about how you flirt with us and make us wanting more, whether its a direct approach, a text message or the way you ask us for a date. So what do women really want in a man? We want someone fun who knows how to use body language and verbal language to get a woman's attention.

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Robin Cockrell has 1 articles online

I am a female who has studied the way men and women interact for years. There are a lot of great men out there not getting the woman that they want because they are going at it all wrong. They don't understand what truly attracts a woman and make her dying to see you again and hang on your every word. There are skills and techniques that you can use that get you in the door and keep you in the door. Stop being the guy that turns into that great woman's friend and learn how to attract women and keep the attraction going. I speak for all the great ladies out there doing the single ladies dance, please, please check out this site. http://www.squidoo.com/howtobealadiesman

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This article was published on 2010/03/30
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