It may seem a bit old-fashioned in today’s futuristic dating world, but you can meet women in person for the first time and ask them out. Although I would never knock online dating, which has served me well over the years, there is just something that must be said about meeting women at parties.
Sometimes you find someone online and on paper you are a perfect match, but when you meet in person there just isn’t a bit of chemistry. That spark is missing, but until you come face-to-face, you would never know.
That is one reason I think meeting women at parties can be so successful. When you see each other in person, you have a chance to examine each other physically, watch each other’s personalities and see if there is a spark there.
Yes, it’s true that all this can be determined at a bar, but there is a reason why meeting women at parties is better than meeting them at bars or clubs.
Besides the impersonal atmosphere of a bar or club, they are often too noisy to have a decent conversation in. In addition, bars and clubs are typically known as pick up locations and women are wary – and probably weary – of anyone who is going to come up to them in such an environment.
Thirdly, a lot of times women are not out at bars looking for a boyfriend. Therefore, if you are looking to meet women that you want to date more than once, often bars and clubs are not the best places to find someone.
The other great thing about meeting women at parties is that there is a better chance of having something in common with her than meeting her at a bar. How’s that? You ask. Because often if you are at the same party, there is a mutual acquaintance involved.
Another benefit of meeting women at parties is because this is a fun atmosphere where people are most likely relaxed and responsive. A party environment is one where conversation flows naturally and people are out to have a good time. People are also prepared to attend a party and meet new people, so meeting women will seem natural and not obtrusive.
In fact, it is very natural to smile and wander up to someone at a party to meet them. A party atmosphere is very nonthreatening and cozy. People feel safe and are open to getting to know new people because they are often at the party with at least one, if not more, friends.
When you are at a party, conversation just seems more natural. It might have to do with it being a private space and not a public one, but for some reason I’ve had more luck meeting women at parties. I tend to think her being at a party also shows that people like her enough to include her, which is always a good sign.