How to approach women ? Change your Outlook

Ask the most courageous guy out there as to how to approach women, and he will tell you that it is the most difficult thing for a man to do. Not only are men afraid of rejection, many cannot even gather enough courage to approach women.

The problem is that most men do not have any idea what to say and do when they come across an attractive woman. Half of them would not even make themselves get up and walk up to her. Out of those who do gather enough courage, a vast majority is so dumbstruck that they are prone to irrational and unexpected behavior. Perfectly normal and otherwise brave men are known to stutter and not be able to utter a single word in front of an attractive woman.

If that is what has been happening to you ever since you arrived on the dating scene, you are not going to get dates unless you get to learn how to approach women in public.

The right way to understand how you can attract and date women instantly and easily is to first analyze the reason why you fear to approach women. With most men, it is the fear of annoying her and the fear of rejection. The reality is that a single woman is just like you. She has been brought up believing that she should not make the first move. Actually, she too is hoping to meet a guy her type, and you could be that guy. If you go up to her, she is more likely to be glad that you did.

Remember, a woman who is alone in a public place is already feeling uneasy- perhaps more than you are.

One of the best ways to approach women, in public or otherwise, is to make her laugh. The entire situation changes for her and for you too. Just make her smile, and you will see that it is not only easy to start a conversation, but that it is also possible to get her to like you.

Once the ice is broken, you have to stop thinking about how to get her telephone number or ask her out on a date. The problem with most men is that they want things to move fast: approach a woman, date her, and then try to take her to bed. It is fine for one night stands and if the woman you approach is game for it. However, that is not the way things are done if you want a relationship that will last.

It is a mental game. You will eventually get to date her if you have the patience and are ready to wait. If you are too overwhelmed with other things you are likely to be nervous and behave awkwardly. That, if you have not already guessed, is going to undo everything that you may have accomplished thus far.

The best way to approach women is still the traditional way. Treat dating as a ritual to discover compatibility. Approach women as you would any individual without fear of annoying her or rejection. Remember, single women are as eager to find a mate as you are.