Do you ever get the feeling that maybe your boyfriend has thoughts about leaving you? When he is late or he doesn't call when he says that he will, does that make you think that maybe he is out with some new woman or that he is just trying to avoid you? If you are really interested in making your boyfriend get closer to you and you want to make sure that he never wants to leave, then pay attention.
Many women have this feeling and they end up trying to suppress it or ignore it and then suddenly it is too late. You want to be able to make sure that your relationship does not take a sudden turn that you did not see coming or one that you did and didn't do a thing about it, do you?
Here are some tips to make sure that he never wants to leave you and brings him closer to you:
1. Become the kind of woman that men never want to leave.
This does not mean that you have to cater to all of his whims or make yourself into a completely different woman just to try and keep him. This does mean that you should do your best to make sure that you are the kind of woman that he would never think about leaving. Be fun, don't pull too hard on him and let him have a little freedom now and again. Do that and he won't even think about ever leaving you.
2. Make him see value in you.
One mistake that a lot of women make is that they try to be everything that he wants and never assert themselves or show off their real personality. While you do want to be the kind of woman he never wants to leave, you don't want to lose yourself. Show him some value in yourself by letting your real personality come out. He won't have to look elsewhere if he sees that in you.
3. Understand what guys really want and what they really respond to in relationships.
There is a lot of advice that is given to both men and women that tends to be way off base as to what really works in the real world. While the fluffy sounding advice may sound good, it's not always what really works. That is why you need to really understand what guys want and what they respond to in relationships so that you know exactly what to say and do.