Is it true that cute guys are only attracted to women who are model thin? Are guys so shallow that they don't give chubby girls a chance? Do men who care more about a woman's personality than about her weight really exist? In today's society we are constantly bombarded by the images of thin and gorgeous women. But does that mean that those types of women are the only ones that guys go for? If you've been wondering whether or not chubby girls have a chance to get gorgeous guys you should continue reading. You may be surprised at what you find out.
The truth of the matter is that men may be initially attracted to a woman's looks. But once they get to know her they will be turned off if she is shallow, snooty, or vapid. So after a time the great looks will not be able to keep him around since he finds her personality tiring and annoying.
Likewise, a woman who has a great personality, who is funny or witty and lots of fun to be around will become more and more attractive in the eyes of a man as he spends more time around her. Just because a guy isn't falling over himself to prove his love to you in the beginning doesn't mean that he will never see you as a possible romance. The more the guy gets a chance to spend time and have a good time with a woman, the more likely he will be to develop feelings for her, regardless of her weight.
Don't worry yourself sick by comparing yourself and your body to other women all of the time. The women you see on TV and in movies are NOT a random sample or a true image of an average woman! Remind yourself of all of your good qualities and the things that you and others find beautiful about your personal appearance and highlight them when you are around Mr.
Whatever you do you have to remain positive and don't let yourself give up. Part of developing healthy body and self image is to stop thinking so much about what other people say and do. The type of person who makes fun of other people is lacking confidence themselves. Ignore all of the naysayers because they will never be nice to other people until they love themselves.
Just worry about showing that special man in your life what a wonderful person you are. If you are kind, he will begin to feel safe with you and see you as the type of woman that he would want to place his trust in. It is true that some men seem to never develop past the obsession with a woman's looks. He'll grow up someday. Just make sure that if you wait he is really worth it.
Most men don't really care as much about a woman's weight or her eye or hair color as they do about what is inside. So it is perfectly viable to think that chubby girls have the chance to date gorgeous guys. It happens all of the time.