As much as you wish things were not the way that they are, you know for a fact that most women that you meet are not going to describe you as being a heartthrob or a hunk. No, you are pretty much an average looking guy and there is no sense in trying to think otherwise. What might surprise you just a bit is the fact that you really do not have to to worry about your looks too much. You can be the average guy that you are and you can still learn to seduce a woman. While the good looking guys do have an advantage to some degree, there is always a way that an average looking man can level the playing field and do just as well.
Talk to some pretty women that have dated some really good looking guys and a lot of the time you will find that for the woman, the good looking guy ended up not being much more than the male equivalent of a bimbo. That's definitely not true for all good looking guys, but it is definitely true for some. So, when you are thinking that good looks is what you need, realize that some guys do have the good looks, but that is all that they have. And that is not always enough to attract a woman, nor is it always enough to keep a woman attracted to you.
Guys that Know How to Seduce a Woman, Also Know How to Be Entertaining to Be Around -
Fact is, a lot of guys end up being total bores to be around and women have to deal with that all of the time. They go out on a date with a guy that they think is cute or nice and then they find out that he is also downright boring to be around and that makes them feel like they just want to get out of there and meet a new guy. So, obviously, you don't want to give a woman that impression. You don't want to make her feel like being around you or out on a date with you is a boring experience. What you do want to do is to learn how to keep a woman entertained without it looking like you are intentionally putting on a show. You don't want to seem like you are putting on a fake persona just for her, you want to seem like you are naturally just an entertaining guy to be around.
Being able to keep a woman entertained is one sure fire way to keep her wanting to be near you. And she has to feel that way if you are going to be able to attract and seduce her, right? Most men are not going to be able to do this or do it well, so if you develop this ability, it makes it so that there really is very little competition for you. You won't have to worry about her having a wandering eye, because all she will want to do is to be around you and listen to what you have to say.
The Real Key is to Trigger Her Sexual Attraction to You -
You also want to acknowledge the fact that a woman will feel a totally different way around a guy that she is sexually attracted to versus a guy that she looks at as more of a friend. There are plenty of good looking guys that don't know how to trigger sexual attraction, so even though it would seem like they have the upper hand, they just end up being more of a friend to a woman.
This gives you another chance to have an advantage even if you are a regular looking guy, because once you have triggered her feelings of being sexually attracted to you, that is when you can escalate things so that you surely will always be more than just the friend type in her mind. This is a really important skill to have and it is one that does take some time to build up. But, it is worth it in the end.