One of the biggest mistakes a guy can make is not being able to tell if a woman likes him. A friend was telling me about a girl he had a crush on in college.
When he described her to me, my mouth started watering.
He said they use to talk everyday - before and after class. Unfortunately, she never seemed interested in him in a romantic way, so naturally he backed off.
Five years later, he hears from a mutual friend that she actually had the biggest crush on him imaginable. The discovery made him light-headed.
I'm pretty sure if he had known about her secret attraction, he would have definitely taken things to the next level.
Unfortunately, she is now married with a kid and one on the way. Back then, she just assumed that he wasn't interested in her. And she actually felt rejected that he never saw her as a romantic option.
This is a problem that many guys have.
In situations like this, they reference memories from another woman in their past who displayed an overwhelmingly obvious level of interest. Then from there, they assume that all women will react this way when they're interesting in a guy.
In other words, they think: "The obvious the sign of interest, the more she is attracted to you."
It doesn't work like that.
A woman can show very subtle signs and yet be extremely attracted to the guy.
With that story in mind, let's talk about 3 signs to tell if a co-worker is secretly interested in you.
The first sign: She makes an effort to get to know more about what you like and dislike.
She may do this by directly asking you, or your friends and co-workers may tip you off that she asked about you through one of them. If you notice that she is showing an interest in your hobbies, your social causes, your entertainment choices, political or religious affiliations, and more, there is good reason for you to believe she is doing so because she is interested in you.
The second sign: She asks you if you have a wife, girlfriend or children - This is almost a dead-giveaway. That's what makes it a powerful sign that a woman is attempting to find out whether or not you are available for her to date or for a relationship.
Many guys assume that she is just making casual conversation.
The third sign: She laughs a lot when she is around you - Unless you're a comedian that most people find hilarious, if a woman frequently laughs at your jokes (particularly the corny ones), this is a good indication that she is interested in you.
Sometimes it's a good to purposely tell a corny joke, just to see how she reacts.
If you experience at least 2 of these signs, there is a strong chance that your female co-worker is much more interested in you than it appears. If you're interested in her, it would be wise to make your move fast.